How old are you?

topic posted Fri, March 16, 2007 - 9:53 AM by  offlineJill
The last time I lied about my age I was 16 trying to pass for 18. I am happy to be 45. Once when someone said "You don't look 45" (like 45 should be really old and wrinkly) I replied "Yes I do, this is what 45 looks like." That is a Gloria Steinem para phrase :)
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Jill
Kansas
  • Re: How old are you?

    Fri, March 16, 2007 - 11:20 AM
    I'm 39....40 in August! Trying really hard to avoid that reality....or should I more appropriately say, trying to avoid hitting 40 and feeling the way I do! My goals of new and improved me by birthday time are dwindling (as reality sets in)....trying to learn the lesson of enjoying the ride and being happy with me--as is--rather than trying always to change (I'm wasting too much time worrying!). Here's hoping that greater self-acceptance is part of my b-day gift to me! Seeing all the beautiful, confident, 35+ dancers here is helping! Thanks!!

    ;-)
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    Sat, March 17, 2007 - 7:33 AM
    I turned 40 in Nov. I just cannot and do not see myself as middle aged. Well, sometimes my body feels older, but my mind and spirit feel so much younger.
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    Sun, March 18, 2007 - 4:17 AM
    My Teacher says "I should never grow old". My Teacher is speaking of what is in my mind, which is why how many years I have been on the planet doesn't mean I am growing old, just aquiring wisdom. At least this is what I am trying to learn. ;-)
    Strangely enough I do not mind my age, I just sometimes wish I had figured out some things earlier. Then again, don't we all. But like someone just said, I am still a baby. °Ü°
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      Sun, March 18, 2007 - 10:05 AM
      41, 42 in June. I love my age, mainly all the wisdom, self confidence, and self ACCEPTANCE that I've *finally* accomplished. And I know I'm *nowhere* close to being the woman I'm meant to be. It's an incredibly fun journey, though, and I look forward to the next 40 years. :-D
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    Sun, March 18, 2007 - 8:29 PM
    I am 42 with 2 years experience. Once I became the same age as 'the answer' I just couldn't bear to change it. Since folks say I don't look that old I just roll with it.

    Dian
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      Tue, July 31, 2007 - 11:05 PM
      Brilliant! You sure know where your towel is, that's for sure! I think I shall plagiarize freely, and say I am 42 with 1 year's experience.

      /giggle
      • Re: How old are you?

        Thu, April 10, 2008 - 2:42 PM
        then i'm 42 with 6 years of experience...

        back when my mother turned 42, i got a t-shirt made for her, claiming she was the answer to life, the universe, and everything...
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    Wed, March 21, 2007 - 12:18 PM


    I'm 60 and holding! Will be 61 July 21st.

    Not a relic yet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol lol lol
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      Sat, March 24, 2007 - 7:08 AM
      I just turned 55 - March 20. My boys are both married and been on their own for a long time so I am just enjoying life. I love the bellydance - both tribal and oriental. Most people tell me I don't look my age - I do try to take good care of myself! One day at a time - don't dwell in the past and you don't know what's ahead of you! As long as I can continue to stay young at heart and be healthy, I'll be happy!!!!!
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        Sun, March 25, 2007 - 9:15 AM
        As of today, I am 51 years old and have been a tribal bellydancer for six years.

        On my 50th birthday last year, the tribal bellydance troupe I'm a member of performed at Rakkasah for the first time. What a rush!! It was a definite milestone in my life and I look forward to many more experiences like that in the future. :D
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        Tue, March 11, 2008 - 2:57 PM
        I totally agree Im 57 and dancing oriental and tribal and loving it .We only pass this once and we might as well make the most of it. My son is 37 and my daughter is 35 and have their own lives to lead so this is my time, in between looking after my disabled husband.
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    Mon, March 26, 2007 - 2:15 PM
    I will be 36 in July, and am (thanks to all the bellydancing in the past 3.5 years) in the best shape I've ever been. Workin' on that 6-pack! LOL ...My significant other has added a few wrinkles to my face & more white hairs to my head, but what can ya do (except dance more!), hehe!